Things we usually come across during our teenage life

 

1. Criticism is a builder not a destructor

 

Many a times people do criticize you and take you for granted. Whenever you want to attain anyone’s attention and you are not getting whatever you are seeking for.

Don’t lose hope and patience be what you are….Life’s simple rule is “CHANGE” and same goes with the people whom we admire. They do change and want others to change for them ….according to their convenience and understanding

But, what about us….???? Are we deaf and dumb sheep? Are we?

NO, not at all….. We have our own life and we will surely change not for them but for those who really cared for us not for the complaints they made but the compliments we gained.

 

2. Getting improved for others

 

 

Being independent doesn’t mean to be stubborn, but to be understanding, at least for the people whom we are acquainted with or having a firm relation. If for a sake of any relationship we have to pay for our behaviour, then let it be, we will do change. Getting ahead in life with all self-esteem and self-respect is good and even great but we should put a HALT if this grows and become our self-pride. That can ruin any relationship.

Nothing can bring a change, except us. It’s not a matter of humiliation but a matter of being generous enough to secure a precious relationship, which would surely last for long.

 

 

3. Don’t overlook the warnings

 

We, especially teenagers do have the problem of taking warnings for granted. And they finally end up inrepenting upon their mistake which occurred due to their over-smartness. Warnings sometimes act like our fairy god mother that secure us before any problem but we generally overlook this warning and don’t take the necessary step to avoid that problem.

 

 

4. “Time”-best ailment

 

Many a times we get hurt, unknowingly or intentionally, but that hurting is definitely be cured by time gap. Time should be given to any relationship if it is heading towards a horrible destination.

Relationship is like a two rails of railway track it both travels together and can reach to a happy ending. But in some case if any of the track gets hurt will definitely cause derailment that concludes relationship to a worst end, that the two of them could not have imagined.

So, time gap or a short break can definitely cure any damage or misunderstanding.

 

5. Silencereallyworks

 

Anger leads to unnecessary arguments and won’t bring any happiness. And at this moment it’s not necessary to put others down by dominating your own voice rather than being a silent creature and loosing that virtual cold war for the sake of relationship.

Don’t think that acting like this will supress your instinct and confidence but silence will provoke you and generate a feeling of understanding.

 

6. Respect the “right one”

 

Respect the one who really deserves that, means who really care, where you are?and what you are up to? Sometimes we are misled by the wrong people whom we admire and really seek for affections and considerations, but often in this meantime we forget the people who really bothers for us.

Whatever the conditions are there, whether  we are not interested in dealing with them, we should always associate them with us. Whatever they are, may not be a close friend, a mere acquaintance but always acknowledge their deeds, that favoured us. So, that they don’t look on us as a mean and selfish creature. And we will obviously realize their importance whenever we are ignored by the person we admire.

 

In case of relationship never leave your friend circle after attaching yourself to one person.

 

7. Trapped by words

We usually find it fascinating, whenever we deal with the person who talks smartly, giving you all attention, praises us. But, this is merely an attraction or an “infatuation”, which just develops as we spend more time with them.

 

During this immaturity stage of our life, we usually carried away by the words, which might send us to cloud nine at that point of time.But it would surely end up leaving bad memories

 

Don’t get attached to people so fast, because attachment would lead to expectation and expectation would lead to disappointments.